One of the things that drops into my inbox each week is a newletter from Dr Alan Zimmerman, a motivational keynote speaker whose Tuesday Tip brings his thoughts on attitude, motivation, teamwork, communications and work relationships right into my mid week commute.
I have often been fascinated by this whole idea that the ‘universe provides’, that there is an energy in the universe that means if you do the things that move you in the direction you want to go in, the path seems to open up before you, signposts and all.
Those who know me well know that the last few weeks have been difficult to say the least and while the path is yet to materialise (it’s just one step at a time at the mo’), this week’s Tuesday Tip, Motivation Is An Inside Job, seemed to be a great signpost for the weeks and months ahead.
Dr Zimmerman starts by saying that no-one is 100% motivated 100% of the time (no really?), that external sources of motivation can not really be counted on ad infinitum (no sh*t Sherlock!), that the best source of motivation lies within ourselves (obviously!) and then goes on to provide some hints and tips on being your own motivational generator (which you can read for yourself by clicking here if you really want to).
But that’s not what inspired me to get tap-tap-tapping here at my front window. His thoughts actually reminded me of something I heard 8-9 years ago from a course leader with Landmark Education:
When you take responsibility for your own happiness, others show up as a gift.
Think about it: imagine being able to generate your own happiness in spite of your circumstances. Then others don’t have to bear the burden of delivering happiness to you, all gift-wrapped with a big shiny bow.
I don’t necessarily mean we need to be happy all the time (personally, and particularly right now, I would find that exhausting) but consider taking responsibility for all the feelings we have and not that they are caused by someone else.
Powerful….and scary…stuff. Because then there would be no-one else to blame…
Damn! Poor-me-ness has been foiled again. Quick, get back under that duvet before I start waxing on about the buck stops here and all that malarky…
…even though it really does.
ps..just to leave you with something else a little motivational (or otherwise depending on your point of view)…the widget thingy says there are only 48 days til Christmas…