Leading By Example…

As the General Election looms closer and closer here in the UK, there has been a lot of talk about the impact (or not) of the ‘third’ political party, the Liberal Democrats (or Lib Dems) and whether a vote for this party is a wasted vote.

I live in an area where Labour have no chance of winning the seat so the choice is the incumbent Lib Dem, Susan Kramer or the Tory candidate, Zac Goldsmith.  I am a Lib Dems supporter and while the dust-up over Richmond Park Car Parking Charges really got on my nerves, I think we have good representation from someone who is committed to making a difference for her constituents. 

That aside however, I have found it fascinating to see the strategies employed by the Tories to win this seat, namely ‘you need to vote Conservative to oust Labour nationally’ and ‘this seat is important in the fight for change’ which kind of implies that a Lib Dem vote is a ‘wasted’ vote.

I don’t think that any vote is a wasted vote.  We are fortunate enough to live in a democratic society, giving us the right to be heard, freedom of speech and the opportunity to choose.  Voting is not compulsory in the UK as it is in other countries like Australia and I think anyone who gets to a polling station to cast their vote in the face of the current political apathy is to be commended.  But I also think that we make the bed we lie in – if we are ‘tactical’ rather than truthful in our vote, how does our message get heard?  And how do we build the case for new causes and new ideas to become viable options if we won’t throw our proverbial ‘hat’ in the ring when we are given the opportunity?

Many people around the world do not have this opportunity to have their say…shouldn’t we be teaching the next generation that they can make a difference rather than let them slide into apathy and disinterest?  And isn’t the best way to do this by example…by getting out and voting honestly – whatever that personal truth may be for each of us.

The Centenary Blog…

So peeps, it’s a special day today and I have to let you in on some exciting news.

THIS IS MY 100th BLOG POST

That’s 100 giddayfromtheuk rants, outpourings and reflections on life…

There have been some ongoing themes and some stand-alone anecdotes, many irreverent witterings and an abundance of passionate opinions…

I’ve shared successes – Definitely Not Leaving, Fotografia Extraordinaria, The Incident Of The Kite In The Tree, All Hail Valley Girl to name a few – and failures (alas the veggie garden is no more)…

There’s even been some getting in touch with ‘the child within’ (Under The Weather, The Happiest Friends On Earth)…

There have moments of humility and gratitude, joy and sorrow as I found new friends and lost others, explored new ideas and questioned my beliefs about love, life and technology…

Who knew there would be so much to say?

So thanks for letting me ‘bend your ear’ for the first 100 and I’m hoping you’ll stay with me for the next 100…

A Leap Of Technological Faith…

My blogger account tells me that I can update my blog posts by email.
I am wondering whether I can really do this because if I could, I could post more often like say on the bus/train to and from work…
…which is quite ironic given my last post (I Am Blogger…Hear Me Now??)
Anyway, I am giving this a try so if things look a little awry of the next few posts (and those of you who get auto-emails of my blog get three versions of the same one), that’ll be why…
The technological relationship between me and my phone usually requires a bit of a leap of faith for me to try stuff…so your support and patience over this difficult time will be appreciated.
Pressing SEND now….

I Am Blogger…Hear Me Now???

In this brave new world of blogging I find myself in, reading the mental meanderings of those I’ve never actually met (and some that I have!!) passes many an idle hour on the commute to and from work.  One of my faves is ad broad, an ‘age-less’, ad-industry female who claims to be the oldest working writer in advertising – her pithy comments and pointed rantings make me smile…and question…and wonder…and smile again…

Anyhow, I read one of her posts recently – no status update = new status symbol – and it did make me wonder about this societal addiction that has emerged.  Letting everyone know what you are doing at random moments on every available medium and presuming that the ‘world out there’ will be fascinated by this.  

Isn’t this just the ultimate in attention-seeking, diva behaviour? 

There has been this absolute transformation from the parental edict ‘seen and not heard’ that I remember to this kind of cyber-showing off – this urge to have something to say, and be heard, all of the time. 

I wonder about the backlash against this that she blogs about.  Some of my friends have emailed me saying they have closed their Facebook accounts and I’m still wondering about the whole Twitter thing myself (I have a twitter-toe dipped in the water though – you can find me – sporadically – under giddayfromtheuk) but I don’t see this surge to social media and the more, quicker, better race for status-updating technologies that surrounds it abating anytime soon.

I’m not sure where my feelings really lie.  I like Facebook and love blogging and if there are no comments in response to my updates and posts for a period of time, I feel slightly bereft.  And some of my fellow bloggers are thought-provoking, funny, irreverent, inspiring and completely generous in allowing me to peek into their worlds. But I worry a bit about the ‘behaviour’ social media seems to generate – the constant ‘I have something to say/Hear me now!’. 

After all, it’s a big world out there – and who REALLY cares? 

Queensberry Rules…Are The Gloves Coming Off?

In a couple of recent email exchanges with my step-mum, we have been bemoaning how little change for good people in organisations seem to be able to achieve. We are both full of examples in politics, business, religion and community groups (there’s my residents association sitting right on my doorstep!) where passion and a willingness to put oneself on the line, instead of sitting around whingeing, appears to get squashed under a mantle of esoteric waffle. In fact, in watching those around absolve themselves of the responsibility to achieve anything with great alacrity and frequency, one’s energy seems to become more absorbed in deciding whether to throw oneself on one’s sword for the cause or adopt a pragmatic ‘hands in the air’ retreat.

I attended the launch of a white paper yesterday on the future of my profession and was dismayed at the lack of ‘way forward’ that the professional body, of which I am a member, was standing for. The big multi-nationals are used time and again to show examples of where good practice delivers results – but not everyone works for a multi-national or for that matter a SME (small-medium enterprise) so that leaves a rather significant group in the middle ground…those who haven’t been made redundant, that is…whose needs are not being served.

I have always been one for sticking my ‘money’ (so to speak) where my mouth is so I’ve recently become the Treasurer for one of the Institute’s new Member Interest Groups and am determined to champion a more pragmatic approach (to the IG) as part of this. But will sticking my chin out again just result in it being an easy target for the ‘right hook’ of esoteric waffle and the ‘upper cut’ comfortable apathy? Only time will tell…

The Australian Way…

Well today I read that the UK is following Australia’s lead…

“Random breath testing in Australia was first introduced in Victoria in 1976 and within 15 years had halved the amount of people who died in car accidents as a result of drink driving. Although slow to follow our lead, British parliament announced two weeks ago that they planned to implement random breath testing in the UK which will come into affect later this year.” Australian Times (www.australiantimes.com)

…only 33 years later!

I have no idea why this has taken so long to come to the fore in the UK given Australia is still part of the Commonwealth (my ‘Australia should be a Republic…no offense to the Queen and all of that’ I shall save for another day). However, this article does make me realise that I was much more aware of the road toll statistics in Australia than I am here.

Some of the other things I remember include:

– State by state road tolls being televised and published during all major holiday periods as well as on an annual basis (check out http://www.tac.vic.gov.au/jsp/statistics/roadtollcurrent.do?areaID=23&tierID=1&navID=2). There was a slightly competitive feeling between the states to get the lowest road toll and in the case of the annual road toll increasing either state or nationally, this ‘bad news’ was discussed at length around office water coolers, at weekend bbqs and after work shindigs.

– Drink-driving had a stigma of shame and irresponsibility when I was a teenager. This was led largely by TAC (Transport Accident Commission) television campaigns featuring the slogan, “if you drink and drive, you’re a bloody idiot.” I remember my younger sister and I being horrified to learn that our parents had driven home after a cocktail party and in another incident, I remember a stand-up row with a boyfriend about me refusing to get in the car and begging him not to drive – both occurred when we were in our teens in the 80s.

– Losing your license in Australia is a bit of a disaster both socially and professionally. Public transport is not very ‘joined up’ and Australians generally travel a fair distance to work so getting anywhere without driving is a major logistics exercise – unlike the UK. (Yes, you Brits may complain about it but it so-o-o-o works!)

I don’t know what the answer is but could building awareness of driving fatalities from an early stage be a start? Does the problem lie in that we perceive our ownership of the action as distinctly separate from the outcomes it produces (which is viewed as someone else’s problem)?

Rant over…phew!
(Unless of course someone leaves comments on my blog about this which results in a ‘set-to’ of soap box sounding off…oh yeah.)